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Updated September 10, 2025. Find top-rated toys that support your journey of self-discovery and pleasure.

Sex toys are innovative. Our perceptions have evolved. Sexual satisfaction is now seen as a human right.

Discover toys for the queer community. As diverse as our bodies, so should sex toys be.

Sex toys can boost intimacy. They support personal discovery, especially important for LGBTQ+ people.

Learn what to look for in LGBTQ+ inclusive sex toys. Find the perfect fit for your needs.

Explore gender-neutral options. Toys like wands can provide equal pleasure for everyone.

Sex toys are a way to explore pleasure. The best LGBTQ+ sex toys are designed for all types of bodies and physical conformations, not just the ones considered heteronormative.

Sex toys that are designed for everyone, such as couples or solos, are very inclusive, while anal toys are among the most queer-friendly options. If you seek to promote inclusivity, your toy collection will sound very open. Everyone will be interested. Shop for everyone. If it's fun for one, it's fun for all.

Gender-Neutral Vibrators. These are non binary sex toys that can be used with equal enjoyment by all people.

Strap-Ons and Harnesses. These are the best option for homosexual couples, especially lesbian.

The best strap ons for queer couples, especially lesbians, are those that are specifically made for women.

Double-Ended Dildos. They can be used by two partners with vaginas at the same time.

They have unconventional shapes – like cones or small, oval shapes like LILY 3, and they can work their magic.

Harnesses allow you to insert vibrators or dildos with a more or less phallic shape, often with a double end.

Strap-ons are harnesses that, more often than not, already have one or two dildos or vibrators as part of them.

They are perfect for erotic games, in some cases even at a great distance. One partner wears them and the other operates them. They can be enjoyed by straight and queer couples alike.

How To Choose the Right LGBTQ+ Sex Toy

The first thing to look for in an LGBTQ+ sex toy is your anatomy and personal identity.

Sex toys are very useful in fighting gender dysphoria – from packers for trans men to dildos of increasing size for trans women. Choose a sex toy that adapts to your anatomy and reaffirms your gender.

Don’t compromise on quality. Choose toys made with body-safe materials and with shapes suitable for the use you have in mind. Only choose objects with a flared base or with a retrieval cord for anal stimulation and prioritize well-known brands.

For sex toys to be used with a partner, favor comfort and adaptability. Objects that lend themselves to various uses can be used to stimulate different erogenous zones.

Brands that support LGBTQ+ inclusion are those that not only provide a product offering especially dedicated to LGBTQ+ people, but also those that offer a range of sensations, shapes and functions. Think shapes disconnected from anatomy that can be used by anyone with equal enjoyment.

The best ethical and inclusive manufacturers towards LGBTQ+ people are the brands that strive to create with respect not only for the health of users, but also for the environment around them. They are brands that do not see the LGBTQ+ community as a mere commercial opportunity but as a chance to expand the concept of pleasure and fulfillment and, ultimately, that of love.

If you are an LGBTQ+ person looking for a sex toy for you and your partner, always start from your needs, what gives you pleasure and what type of stimulation you are looking for. Choose a serious manufacturer who cares about the quality and safety of the products and who supports the LGBTQ+ community.

And if you want to start getting an idea, start with LELO’s Queer Sex Toy Picks.

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KATY THORN is a writer. Explore her insights and articles on a variety of topics, including sex, sexuality, and all things rated R. Read her perspectives and discover her passion.

Katy Thorn is a post-grad writer with a passion for writing about sex, sexuality, and all things rated R. She received her degree in Women’s Studies with a focus in Intersectionality at the University of California, Berkeley (Go Bears!). She has a cat named Yoko, drinks too much black coffee, and hates writing bios.