THE BEST PROSTATE MASSAGERS FOR BEGINNERS

HELENA LORIMER·APRIL 30, 2025

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Last updated:September 9, 2025

Below the bladder and surrounding urethra.

Nourishes sperm and makes up semen.

Prostate can induce firework orgasms.

Target the prostate (the P-spot) with perfection

Beginner-friendly prostate massager.

Here’s your guide on massagers for beginners.

But first… a little enticement.

Why Prostate Massage is Beneficial

Not only is receiving a prostate massage good for your health, but it’s also super pleasurable. Here are some of the benefits of a prostate massage…

Health Benefits

Prostatitis: A prostate massage could help ease pressure and swelling caused by prostatitis (swelling and inflammation of the prostate). By stimulating the prostate several times a week, it could ease pain and release some of the fluid that has built up in the area.

Diagnosing medical conditions: Going to a medical professional for a prostate exam could be a way in which to detect underlying medical conditions.

Erectile problems: While there isn’t scientific proof, some have experienced increased sexual pleasure via a prostate massager and easier ejaculation.

Swollen prostate relief: Improve urine flow by gently massaging your prostate, alleviating pressure on the urethra.

Heightened Sensual Pleasure

Enhanced pleasure and orgasms: Prostate orgasms are often described as more intense than typical climaxes.

Beginner-friendly: The right prostate toy can help make the experience more enjoyable and less stressful.

Essential Features for Newbies

Finding the right toy: Here are some things to consider when starting your prostate exploration journey.

Size & Shape. Leave the big ones for the more experienced players. As a beginner, you should opt for something slim with a gentle curve. Also, choose a prostate toy with a small girth for easy insertion.

Material & Safety. Always go for body-safe silicone or ABS plastic. This will not only aid in comfort, but you’ll always be sure you’re choosing the best kind of material that’s safe for your body.

Vibration vs. Manual. Choose a prostate toy with a small girth for easy insertion.

Always go for body-safe silicone or ABS plastic.

Choose a prostate toy with a small girth for easy insertion.

As a beginner, you may want to stick to the manual stimulation prostate massagers. Yes, vibrations may sound super sexy and add in a layer of extra pleasure, but they do require a learning curve.

Handle or Base?

When using a prostate massager with a base, always make sure it’s flared. This is to make sure that you can insert and remove it safely and easily.

The Best Prostate Massagers for Beginners

So you want to find the best beginner prostate toys. Here are four prostate massagers that we recommend for newbies.

4. HUGO Remote Controlled Prostate Massager

Another toy that may seem intimidating, HUGO is medium-sized and can be a lot of fun for those who want to work their way up to some even more fulfilling prostate play.

How To Use a Prostate Massager Safely

Before we guide you through how to use a prostate massager safely, we’d like to mention something called anal training.

Anal training is when you use butt plugs of various sizes, starting with the smallest one, in an attempt to gain comfort and pleasure.

You see, using any anal toys comes with a learning curve so it’s important to start small and work your way up.

When you’re ready to try something bigger than the largest butt plug, then you can follow these steps for ultimate safety with your prostate massager.

Take your time and set aside enough time with no disturbances and feel relaxed. Prostate massage is fun but should be slow. Have plenty of water-based lubricant on hand, add generously. Get into a comfortable position. Slowly insert your prostate massager. Take as long as needed. Be patient with yourself and listen to your body. If any pain, stop. After, clean properly.

Best Lubricants To Use with Prostate Massagers

Equally as important in the process of using a prostate massager… lubricant! You see, the anus doesn’t produce any lubrication naturally, and you’ll definitely want a smooth glide to aid in more comfort and pleasure.

So, as we’ve mentioned, one of the best sex toy materials to use is body-safe silicone. For this kind of material, you’ll want to pair it with a water-based lube as it’s safe and they make an excellent pair.

You’ll want to avoid a silicone-based lube with silicone toys however, as this lubricant can degrade the sex toy material over time.

Cleaning & Maintenance Tips

If you’re using a silicone prostate massager, which we recommend, you could use warm water and a mild antibacterial soap to clean your toy, then allow it to air dry. Store it in a cool, dry space, and opt for a bag to avoid dust buildup.

As per charging, if you have a rechargeable prostate massager, it’s important to allow it to fully charge before first use. After that, try to avoid over-charging it as it could shorten the battery life.

Today’s main takeaway is that using a prostate massager can be exceedingly pleasurable if used slowly and at your own pace. And this is why it’s so important to find the right prostate massager for you.

What’s also important is for you to focus on comfort and enjoyment, and to always listen to your body. If you feel any pain or discomfort, stop. There’s no rush to your play time, so take your time.

One thing is for sure however: you’ll definitely receive all of the benefits of prostate play as you continue to experiment. So why not take this time to explore different beginner-friendly prostate massagers and take the next step in your pleasure?

Here are some of our prostate massagers at LELO that you may love! Or perhaps you’d like to check out some of our other sex toys for men? Go on, you know you want to.

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