EVERYTHING YOU’VE WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT ATTENDING A SEX PARTY

EMMA SAYLE·MARCH 1, 2017

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We are so pleased to welcome Emma Sayle as a guest author.

What Type of People Go to Sex Parties?

It is a mixed bag of driven and successful people looking for that hedonistic experience. We welcome all types from city workers to models to advertising execs, and schoolteachers. They all share a similar mentality: that life is to be enjoyed and experienced! It’s definitely not just ‘posh people’ as the media makes out.

How Should I Broach the Topic with My Partner?

‘Babe, do you fancy joining a sex party?’ is a bold question. So go in softly. Suggest doing something naughty together but just as voyeurs with no pressure to get involved. Try ‘let’s just go and see what its all about, we can always leave whenever we want’ instead. Until you put yourselves in the middle of a Killing Kittens party you will never know how you will react and whether you can really handle it. Some fantasies are best left in the imagination.

What Do We Need to Bring to a Sex Party?

Wear good lingerie because you never know how you will feel when you get there. Other than that, just bring yourselves, a mask and an open mind.

Are We Expected To Join In & Get Naked As Soon As We Arrive?

There is no pressure to get naked, get involved or do anything you don’t want to do. The bottom line is that the Killing Kittens events are actually really fun parties and not all about the sex.

What Can We Expect Upon Arrival?

Killing Kittens events kick off with a cocktail reception, often with oysters too. To keep things exciting everyone wears masks upon arrival. For a few hours it’s a private drinks event: imagine a stylish house party full of guests in sexy dress and masks.

We have strict rules that set us apart from other parties. Killing Kittens is about women being in control, in charge of their sexuality and to go as far as they want without pressure from men. So men don’t approach girls they don’t know.

If in a couple and like other couples or single girls, it’s up to the girl to approach. After that, it’s like any bar scenario: you don’t know how they will react. Finally, if there is action you can’t just dive in – you must wait to be invited.

Finally, if there is action going on you can’t just dive in – you must wait to be invited in. No-one likes an over-enthusiastic and uninvited penis diving into the mix.

For more information about swinging etiquette, see our “What Are Swingers? Answered By Long-Time Swingers” article.

Are There Any Other Rules We Should Know About?

No means no. We also don’t allow phones: in the 12 years the parties have been running, no-one has ever ‘checked in’ to a Killing Kittens event on social media. Our events are secret and we want to take you out of that world.

How Do You Ensure Safer Sex?

We provide bowls and bowls of condoms. After that it’s down to consenting adults – we can’t police the playrooms to ensure they are all using protection. We also work with several STI and sexual health clinics that we promote within the events.

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