Understanding the Risks of Sharing Sex Toys

When toys are passed between partners (or even used on different body parts during playtime) they can carry STIs and infections such as bacterial vaginosis or yeast via bodily fluids. Porous materials can also hold onto bacteria and are more difficult to clean than non-porous materials.

Even if you’re only playing with one partner or on your own, using the same toy for anal and vaginal play without proper cleaning can transmit potentially harmful bacteria, especially if you’re going from anal play to vaginal play.

Safe Materials for Shared Sex Toys

Always opt for body-safe, non-porous materials from high-quality brands. The best materials that are easy to clean include medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, stainless steel, and ABS plastic, as they’re all non-porous and won’t trap bacteria, making them a breeze to sanitize.

Sex toy hygiene becomes more complicated when you introduce porous materials. When you’re sharing sex toys, avoid toys made from jelly rubber, TPE, latex, and fabric, as they are difficult to fully disinfect and can harbor bacteria. If your heart is set on sharing a toy made from these materials, always use a condom with them.

Best Cleaning Methods for Shared Sex Toys

To maintain your toys, wash non-porous items with gentle soap and water, and sanitize with cleaner. Avoid soaking electronics; use wipes. For shared porous toys, always use protection and antibacterial spray; consider frequent replacement.

UV sanitizers are high-tech devices that use UV light for disinfecting sex toys, killing bacteria or viruses without damaging materials.

UV-C light can kill these germs, it may not remove all pathogens completely, so it’s best to combine with an additional cleaning method.

When to Use Condoms on Shared Toys

Condoms add an extra layer of protection as they prevent bacteria from being absorbed. They can also be used for non-porous toys for greater peace of mind.

It’s also a good idea to use condoms between partners and play changes, even if everyone has been tested or is on another contraceptive method.

Proper storage methods are just as important as knowing how to clean sex toys. For cross-contamination and infection prevention, keep toys in individual storage bags or cases. Some cases or bags even have built-in UV lights to enhance cleaning capabilities further.

After cleaning shared adult toys, make sure that they are completely dry before you put them away. This will prevent bacterial growth and mildew (a type of mold) caused by moisture. It may also be helpful to stay organized by labeling or designating toys for specific uses, especially if you’re using them often in group play scenarios or live a polyamorous lifestyle. This can help prevent accidental mix-ups.

Even those who diligently clean and store their toys can experience unintentional slip-ups. One common pitfall is delaying cleaning. Bacteria can multiply quickly if sex toys sit unwashed, so be sure to clean them with the right method immediately after using.

Proper Storage of Shared Toys

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Another mistake can be using harsh chemicals on toys, such as bleach and abrasive cleaners. This can damage materials, and leftover residue from strong cleaners like bleach can be harmful to your body.

Lastly, don’t store toys made from mixed materials together. Silicone toys or porous materials, for instance, can react when rubbing against each other and cause degradation, which is why it’s best to store toys individually in cloth or original packaging when possible.

To Sum it Up

Knowing how to clean sex toys, especially in a shared context, might not be the first bedroom activity that gets you turned on. However, it’s an essential part of safer sex that ensures everyone involved stays happy and healthy. By choosing non-porous materials, sanitizing between each use, using condoms when it’s called for, and storing toys properly, you can do your part to protect yourself and your partners from unnecessary risks.

Your next step: Take a moment to look at your current toy-cleaning routine. If you think it might need a refresh, implement these simple changes to make your playtime safer and more hygienic.

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