TOP GENDER-NEUTRAL SEX TOYS
KATY THORN·MARCH 29, 2025
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Last updated:September 10, 2025
Like society itself, the world of pleasure products is evolving
Today, more and more people are looking for versatile, inclusive pleasure options
What Makes a Sex Toy Gender-Neutral?
A gender-neutral sex toy is designed without rigid assumptions about anatomy
Inclusive designs focus on universal pleasure points like external stimulation zones, adjustable angles, and ergonomic comfort. Versatile pleasure functions can be used in multiple ways, ensuring adaptability for all users.
Top Inclusive Sexual Toys
Inclusive sex toys are known for being versatile, comfortable, and modern. These items are made to function with various bodies, enabling unique ways to enjoy pleasure. The main categories of these toys, and how to use them, are shown here:
Unisex Vibrators
These vibrators are designed for external and internal stimulation, making them suitable for a variety of pleasure preferences.
Gender inclusive vibrators have broad and ergonomic shapes that can be used on multiple erogenous zones.
Dual-Use Dildos
Dildos that are not anatomically specific provide versatile ways to explore penetration and external stimulation. Some have a double-ended design, allowing different levels of depth or angles of stimulation.
Others are flexible, meaning they can adapt to the user’s body position and preference, making them comfortable for solo or partnered play. Many of these dildos can be used with a harness or held manually, providing more control over the experience.
Wearable and Hands-Free Toys
These toys allow pleasure without needing to hold or adjust them constantly. Some feature a strapless design, fitting securely between partners for hands-free play.
Others are designed with remote or app control, meaning they can be enjoyed discreetly in public settings or as part of long-distance play. Many of these toys are also adjustable in fit and function, making them accessible for a wide range of users, regardless of anatomy.
Originally designed as muscle relaxers, massage wands have become one of the most universally loved pleasure devices, suitable for all users regardless of gender identity. Their broad, rounded heads deliver powerful vibrations over a large surface area, making them excellent for external stimulation.
They can be used on the neck, back, thighs, or erogenous zones, and their intense, rumbly vibrations make them a favorite among users seeking deep sensations. Many wands have adjustable power settings so that users can control the intensity level that suits them best.
When selecting non-binary sex toys, consider the following aspects to find your best fit:
Massage Wands
How To Choose the Right Gender-Neutral Toy
Personal pleasure preferences – Do you prefer external stimulation, penetration, or a mix of both? Gender-neutral toys often cater to all three.
The brands that support gender inclusivity are those that not only provide a product offering especially dedicated to non-gendered people, but also those that explore a range of sensations, shapes and functions. They are those that offer shapes disconnected from the anatomy that can be used by anyone and in any situation with equal enjoyment.
Material safety and comfort – Look for medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel to ensure hygiene and durability.
The best ethical and inclusive manufacturers towards gender inclusivity are the brands that strive to create with respect not only for the health of users, but also for the environment around them. They are brands that do not see gender inclusivity as a mere commercial opportunity but as a chance to expand the concept of pleasure and fulfillment and, ultimately, that of love.
Conclusion
The rise of gender-neutral sex toys marks a positive shift towards inclusive pleasure. Whether you’re looking for gender inclusive vibrators, flexible dildos, or hands-free experiences, the market now offers accessible, adaptable, and body-safe options for all.
Exploring inclusive pleasure products and non binary sex toys allows for a personalized and affirming experience, free from rigid labels or assumptions. Take your time to discover what works best for you and embrace the freedom of pleasure beyond binarity.
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KATY THORN is an experienced writer. She specializes in writing about sex, sexuality and all things rated R. She's passionate about her work and always delivers quality content. She is a valuable asset to any team.
Katy Thorn is a post-grad writer with a passion for writing about sex, sexuality, and all things rated R. She received her degree in Women’s Studies with a focus in Intersectionality at the University of California, Berkeley (Go Bears!). She has a cat named Yoko, drinks too much black coffee, and hates writing bios.
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